Do you ever find yourself in the “one-day” mindset, believing that “one day I’ll be out of debt,” “one day I’ll have enough money,” “one day I’ll be able to stop worrying about my investments,” or “one day I’ll finally be able to relax”?
We yearn for contentment, hoping to find it someday, but is it possible to experience contentment in every moment of every day? According to the Apostle Paul, it is indeed possible. Our mistake lies in seeking contentment in the wrong places.
When our contentment depends on our circumstances, it will always be temporary because circumstances constantly change. During his lifetime, the Apostle Paul went from worldly success to the depths of poverty. He had been a well-respected Pharisee but became an imprisoned and impoverished follower of Christ. Despite all this, Paul writes in Philippians 4 that he had discovered the secret to contentment. It was not in his circumstances but in the person and work of Jesus.
He writes from verses 11-13, “Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me." Paul experienced both plenty and want, and neither affected him because his contentment was based on something far beyond this world—his relationship with Christ.
Does this ability come naturally, suddenly appearing the day you pray the sinner’s prayer and accept Christ as Lord and Savior? That would be wonderful, but Paul stresses that contentment is a learned behavior. You have to work at it.When we take our eyes off our circumstances and place them on God as Paul did, it changes our perspective. We begin to see that nothing in this world—not money, success, status, people, possessions, or a booming economy—will ever bring lasting contentment. Only a deep, personal relationship with Jesus can satisfy the longing in our souls.
Hebrews 13:5 encourages us to “keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for he has said, ‘I will never leave you nor forsake you.’” Thankfulness is a crucial component of contentment. When you recognize what God has already done for you, the incredible provision and blessings He’s given you, you begin to form a heart of gratitude. Art Rainer likes to say, “When you realize that you’re entitled to nothing, you become thankful for everything.”If you’re finding it hard to feel content in your current situation, practicing gratitude intentionally can help break through that negative mindset. It redirects your focus from what’s missing to what you already have, reminding you of God’s sovereignty and goodness. He has promised to provide, and He is always faithful to His promises.
If you’re not feeling particularly thankful or content today, here are five practical steps to help improve your perspective: